A former prostitute who has slept with over 10,000 men has penned a book about her sex-as-a-business escapades and reveals “what do men really want from sex?”
Gwyneth Montenegro, 39, from Australia, spent almost 15 years as a “lady of the night” and tells all on the surprising things that men will pay for.
In her book on “being financially successful in the sex industry,” she said “most men do not always go for the kinky services.”In fact, in her experience in the industry, the most important thing to her clients was “feeling of being needed and wanted. They wanted badly to be wanted by a horny woman. It is their ultimate fantasy.”
She said that it is vital, therefore that whatever sex acts you are doing, “you make it look like you want him bad and are enjoying him so much (even if you aren’t).”
Gwyneth said that many girls in the industry try to “outdo” other women with the acts or techniques they use, but this does not work.
“They are regular everyday men who just want some fun, and they want to know that you are having fun too.”
One of the biggest questions that she found girls asking was whether or not a getting bigger boobs would be beneficial.
The former prostitute revealed most men prefer the feel of real boobs, but there is a market for every body type.
“A little-known secret in the punting world, is that there are quite a lot of men who will actively seek out escorts who are not the hottest of the hot women and go for someone who isn’t as classically beautiful, because they feel shy and sometimes a little inadequate themselves.
“You don’t have to be the hottest femme fatale, but as long as you are well groomed, comfortable and confident in your own skin, have a great vibe, energetic and you are professional, this is what most men like.
Gwyneth said that one of the biggest myths is that men only want younger women.
But in her experience, women can be successful at any age, and she has witnessed escorts in their 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s earning very well.
She said: “Talking to one of my amazing male friends, who is in his early 50s, he said; Can you see me wanting to book a 22-year-old? If I wanted to have some conversation and connection and to feel like I was getting the attention I wanted, do you think a 22-year-old would give me that kind of service?’”
Also, getting men excited about bedroom action often has little to do with skimpy outfits out in public.
When it comes to the clothes you wear, she said: “You don’t have to have ‘it all hanging out’ to make money in this business. ”She said that men like a bit of mystery and would rather pay for something that other men don’t always get to see.
She said: “You don’t have to slut yourself out in how you dress, to get the attention of the men.”
Gwyneth revealed she had written the guide to empower women thinking of entering the industry and to teach them how to survive. “In my line of work I am approached by practicing escorts almost weekly and the trend is alarming. More and more reveal that they are disheartened, bitter, broken and financially struggling. They are desperate.
“How could I sit back and stay quiet, when I know how it’s done? With my much talked about 10,091 encounters behind me I don’t need the knowledge anymore, so I pass it on.”